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Pictures without consent

Long term relationship ended, ex-girlfriend has pictures of zyikes05/08/18
Also, what does this fall under? Am I just a victim or how d zyikes05/08/18
if they're only on her phone, and she's not posting them any dingbat08/15/18
This is why I have sex tapes/nudes of my last 3 exes (all ta isthisit08/19/18
Sad adamb08/24/18
https://en.m.wikipedia.org/wiki/Car rie_Goldberg lawnotforme08/20/18
It depends on the circumstances of where/when/why/how they w flharfh08/22/18
Why don't you just ask her to delete them? specv31308/22/18
Has the honor system every worked in this situation? Maybe w superttthero08/22/18
I know the law may be changing, but consent only binds when qdllc08/23/18
Revenge porn is illegal in NY if one party did not know they adamb08/24/18
zyikes (May 8, 2018 - 5:43 am)

Long term relationship ended, ex-girlfriend has pictures of me blackout drunk naked which I obviously did not consent to.. What can I do to get these deleted/off her phone?

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zyikes (May 8, 2018 - 5:44 am)

Also, what does this fall under? Am I just a victim or how do I handle this in a professional manner before anything potentially harmful happens?

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dingbat (Aug 15, 2018 - 6:06 pm)

if they're only on her phone, and she's not posting them anywhere publicly, deal with it.
Better to keep your head down and let her forget about you, than to stir the pot and have the pics go viral

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isthisit (Aug 19, 2018 - 12:03 am)

This is why I have sex tapes/nudes of my last 3 exes (all taken with consent!).

I'll never release anything of course but if embarrassing photos of me are ever released. Well you know how it goes.

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adamb (Aug 24, 2018 - 8:07 am)

Sad

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lawnotforme (Aug 20, 2018 - 9:41 pm)

https://en.m.wikipedia.org/wiki/Carrie_Goldberg

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flharfh (Aug 22, 2018 - 4:57 pm)

It depends on the circumstances of where/when/why/how they were taken, but probably nothing. She likely can't publish them, though. Google "revenge porn laws."

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specv313 (Aug 22, 2018 - 9:54 pm)

Why don't you just ask her to delete them?

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superttthero (Aug 22, 2018 - 10:45 pm)

Has the honor system every worked in this situation? Maybe with respect to release/sharing, but with respect to keeping/deleting.

HAHA

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qdllc (Aug 23, 2018 - 7:41 am)

I know the law may be changing, but consent only binds when someone wants to monetize photos taken. If you’re in public, no consent needed to take and display your image. If you’re in someone’s home, no consent needed. If someone’s in your home with your permission, no consent needed.

Even the issue of “revenge porn” is problematic. If no money it being made, it’s not an issue in most areas.

At least it isn’t about photos of you doing something illegal. You’ll survive this.

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adamb (Aug 24, 2018 - 8:06 am)

Revenge porn is illegal in NY if one party did not know they were filmed.

OP did make it sound like he was on good terms with the girl. Why don’t you explain why you don’t want her to keep the pic and ask her to delete it. Memorialize the conversation in a nice text if she refuses.
Why do straights people get so paranoid about revenge porn?

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