Celebrating 10 years! 2007-2017

The Life Volume XI

The life. My flight landed. I arrived in the city…in borntodieonce12/11/17
Interesting. avalanchediode12/11/17
So early in the game. moistio212/11/17
Because people who actually live like this feel the need to josh12/11/17
Respect your betters. $1,000 a plate! avalanchediode12/11/17
I like that he does. I like living vicariously through him. originallarry12/11/17
#borntoliveonce avalanchediode12/11/17
josh: "Because people who actually live like this feel the n borntodieonce12/11/17
A lot of the things you post sound cool, but Toronto in the severian212/11/17
sh*ts and giggles borntodieonce12/11/17
addendum borntodieonce12/11/17
severian2: "A lot of the things you post sound cool, but Tor borntodieonce12/11/17
Here are a few observations: (1) Borntodieonce is not a n soiled_nappies12/11/17
Are you new here? severian212/11/17
Haha wow. We found him IRL and this is pretty spot on. moistio212/11/17
barfman up to no good again? originallarry12/11/17
And I thought he was Harold Robbins back from the dead. toooldtocare12/11/17
He's actually 35, 34 at time of posting. He is a neurosurg formermod01/07/19
BTD1 is a Dear Friend. dopesmokeresquire12/11/17
Haha. Really? That's hilarious. originallarry12/11/17
soiled_nappies: "Here are a few observations: (1) Borntod borntodieonce12/11/17
Wew Marfan's bigwags12/11/17
Is that a wedding ring? severian212/11/17
That's batman's wrist bigwags12/11/17
2. Spago's (the duck is on point). borntodieonce12/11/17
dopesmokeresquire: "BTD1 is a Dear Friend." borntodieonce12/11/17
4....so early in the game. borntodieonce12/11/17
If you are ever in Beverly Hills- I highly suggest Spagos. borntodieonce12/11/17
views. on views. borntodieonce12/11/17
this life is ridiculous. borntodieonce12/11/17
./,.,/.,/,.,/ vohod12/11/17
Post as TCME. TCME is an entertaining dude, this is trash. 3lol12/11/17
Can you do one for me, btdo? "Step Your Game Up, Josephine" josephine12/11/17
hey i may join you in russia depending on city or australia. whiteguyinchina12/11/17
whiteguyinchina: "hey i may join you in russia depending on borntodieonce12/12/17
i think australia has nice nature. but i found it quite simi whiteguyinchina12/12/17
josephine: "Can you do one for me, btdo? "Step Your Game Up, borntodieonce12/12/17
Bravo! gazoo12/12/17
Fun poast. Seems inconsistent with clique theory as a loser midlaw12/13/17
whiteguyinchina: “i think australia has nice nature. but borntodieonce12/13/17
singapore is nice. ever been? big cities all look the same t whiteguyinchina12/13/17
midlaw: "Fun poast. Seems inconsistent with clique theory as borntodieonce12/13/17
Life doesn’t work out for most, but when anyone watches Br wearyattorney12/13/17
whiteguyinchina: “singapore is nice. ever been? big cities borntodieonce12/13/17
Gotta love these parents. borntodieonce12/13/17
my most precious thing in life. borntodieonce12/13/17
"borntodieonce (Dec 13, 2017 - 1:06 pm) my most precious omahafabio12/13/17
omahafabio "borntodieonce my most precious thing in l borntodieonce12/13/17
always felt more home in the west. tho the people in both pl whiteguyinchina12/13/17
whiteguyinchina (Dec 13, 2017 ) "i am so phenomenally bu gazoo12/14/17
at this point, mowing a lawn with one of those rideable unit whiteguyinchina12/14/17
whiteguyinchina: "always felt more home in the west. tho the borntodieonce12/14/17
... debtslave1501/08/19



borntodieonce (Dec 11, 2017 - 3:34 pm)

The life.


My flight landed. I arrived in the city…in the early evening. I jumped into a cab. The cab pulled up to the W. I got out. I walked inside. The front desk clerk recognized me. We exchanged pleasantries (she saw me two weekends ago). I got my suite key. I walked toward the elevator. I got into my room. Nice view. Status quo. I took a shower. I texted Hannah to come over. She asked if I wanted to get dinner. I replied that I had no time. 30 minutes go by. I logged in to JDU, and made a post about wolfmann- for sh*ts and giggles. (FYI- step your game up). Hannah should be here by now. I called her mobile phone. No answer. No worries. I will call girl number two. Lizet.



I tell Lizet that I am in the city. She says she can be at my hotel suite in 10 minutes. Talk about on-demand economy. Pus*y arrives at your hotel suite- faster than Papa Johns. I love this life. Lizet, asks me to call downstairs, and put her name as a guest, such that the front desk will provide her with a key- so she can come straight up, sans me having to go downstairs and get her. She is efficient. Gotta love that. I call the front desk. I request that they put Lizet’s name on my guest list.



Hannah, calls me and says she is downstairs. Interesting. I though she wasn’t coming, insofar as she did not pick up when I called. And now Lizet is also on her way. Hmmmmmmmmmm. I go downstairs and get Hannah. She is thicker than a snicker. We walked into my hotel suite…and we start making out. Namely, because I have a flight to catch…in two hours. Literally. As we are making our way to the bed, I pick up my mobile phone, and text Lizet “dont get in the Uber.” I then put the dead-bolt on the front door to the suite. Just in case housekeeping, or Lizet shows up.


So…I am smashing Hannah. Her ass is wide. I am enjoying myself (I once smashed Hannah outside in a park…how time flies. That was a year ago). Girls these days. She starts to blow me. Her head game is something else. Mallampati 1. She can really retract her jaw. One day she will be married. The recyclization of pus*y in America. It is amazing to witness it.



There is a knock on the door. Damn. Lizet showed up. Girls these days. I texted her not to come- and she still showed up. Ridiculous. Like she doesn’t have anyone else to give the pus*y too. Hannah, asks me if I am expecting anyone. I ignore her question. And cum on her chest.



10 minutes later- there is another knock on the door. Wow. Talk about persistence. Jeremiah’s “oui” is playing throughout the hotel suite. Lizet, uses her key card- and physically tries to open the door. The dead-bolt precludes her from doing so. This sh*t is like a movie. My flight is in 1:45 hours-ish. I am already checked in though- and have no bags. I start getting dressed- and tell Hannah, that its probably some friends that I told I would be at the W. I tell her to wait in the room for 5 minutes, before coming out, such that she doesn’t have to walk out the room- and have my friends know that she just blowed me. She obliges. I put my macbook pro in my duffle bag. I kiss Hannah on the check. I brace myself. And get ready to open the front door- expecting to see Lizet on the other side. The suite phone rings. I don’t pick it up. Its likely the front desk calling, to see if I am in my suite. Hannah, looks at me and smiles. Then laughs. Pure comedy. I open the front door. No one is there. Praise Jesus! I walk toward the elevator. I start laughing to myself. If I had more time in the city, I could have staggered the girls time-wise, and smashed both. It is a shame that I only used the suite for 1 hour. The view was on point.



I get down to the lobby. Lizet is sitting by the bar. She actually did not see me walk into the lobby. I could have left through the front entrance, without her seeing me. I walk over to her. She has a blank expression on her face. Then she smiles. I say hi. She is like…”I’ve been waiting. I went upstairs. Where were you?” Blah blah blah. I tell her let’s go. The hotel calls me a towncar. Lizet and I, go outside. We walk down the street and sit on a bench, just in case Hannah comes down. I need spatial separation. I tell Lizet that I am off to the airport- but she can join me- and ride with me to the airport. She says ok. She looks good in her jeans. Form fitting. Like a Paris model. Lizet is 21. lol. Hannah is 25. So early in the Fu*king game. Wolfman. How was your weekend? That is a rhetorical question.



Lizet and I are in the towncar. She kisses me. We chat about whatever. The towncar pulls up to the airport. The driver gets out. Maybe to give us privacy? I guess he peeps game. Lizet kisses me again. She asks if I can come back to the city for her birthday- the day before Christmas. I tell her I will be in Toronto. She asks, if she can come see me next weekend (this past weekend) I say of course.




I get out of the car. I walk through the airport. This is life ridiculous.




Fast forward to this past Saturday night (12/9/2017). Lizet DRIVES to my city. lol. Jesus Christ. She gets to my place around 6:00 pm. She tells me- “I am going to go out with my girlfriend who lives out here. Get drinks. I’ll come back by 10:00 pm.” I tell her cool. She leaves her travel bag on the couch, and goes into the bathroom to change clothes. She calls an Uber, since she will be drinking. Another girl….Sarah…texts me….”wanna hang.” I say “sure, come over.” Lizet leaves. I put her bag in my closet. Sarah…shows up 30 minutes later. Sarah comes upstairs, and we talk. I have already smashed Sarah…months ago, so its whatever. I don’t feel like smashing her tonight. Too much energy. Me not trying to smash her- inadvertently… will actually make her want to smash sometime during the week. Funny how that works. Sarah finally leaves. Perfect. She will go home, and wonder why I did not try to smash. She will likely text me during the week, and want to come over again, ready to smash. Its cyclical. If you want pus*y…ignore pus*y.




Lizet, calls me at 12:00 am, and says she is downstairs. I buzz her up. She gets into bed. We SMASH hard. This girl is fu*king like she is trying to rupture her uterus. While smashing- she is saying all kinds of things. “I missed you. This is your pus*y. Fu*k me hard. You feel so good. Blah blah blah.“ Girls these days. Its my pus*y? LOL. On Monday, she will switch it up, and be a good girl again. Like clock work. We fall asleep. She leaves in the afternoon.




This morning….12/11/2017…I am rounding at the hospital. I am standing in front of a patient’s room. And this nurse…Danielle…walks into a room right next to me. I have smashed Danielle 6 or 7 times. She smiles at me. So early in the damn game. 2017…its been fun. 2018…will be interesting. I may go to Russia in March of 2018. Or Australia. And there is this Orthopedic surgeon- that I may start dating-ish. She has beautiful eyes. I should be in Toronto next weekend-ish.

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avalanchediode (Dec 11, 2017 - 3:58 pm)

Interesting.

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moistio2 (Dec 11, 2017 - 3:59 pm)

So early in the game.

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josh (Dec 11, 2017 - 4:02 pm)

Because people who actually live like this feel the need to write mini-novels about it on anonymous internet forums populated almost exclusively by Losers. Right.

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avalanchediode (Dec 11, 2017 - 4:03 pm)

Respect your betters. $1,000 a plate!

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originallarry (Dec 11, 2017 - 4:20 pm)

I like that he does. I like living vicariously through him.

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avalanchediode (Dec 11, 2017 - 4:02 pm)

#borntoliveonce

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borntodieonce (Dec 11, 2017 - 4:19 pm)

josh: "Because people who actually live like this feel the need to write mini-novels about it on anonymous internet forums populated almost exclusively by Losers. Right."










Good afternoon. You are absolutely free to believe whatever you like. This is sh*ts and giggles. Its only going to get more unbelievable....in the coming years. I will post what you dream about. Good luck and all that jazz.



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severian2 (Dec 11, 2017 - 4:30 pm)

A lot of the things you post sound cool, but Toronto in the winter is not one.

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borntodieonce (Dec 11, 2017 - 4:28 pm)

sh*ts and giggles



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borntodieonce (Dec 11, 2017 - 4:31 pm)

addendum



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borntodieonce (Dec 11, 2017 - 4:33 pm)

severian2: "A lot of the things you post sound cool, but Toronto in the winter is not one."














Good afternoon. I like Toronto. Good food. And I like cold weather.

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soiled_nappies (Dec 11, 2017 - 5:09 pm)

Here are a few observations:

(1) Borntodieonce is not a native English speaker.
a. He uses syntax that is jarring to native English speakers, and does not use typical English words. I have seen heard this before, most often from Middle-Easterners. (I have worked extensively in this part of the world and it all rings a bell for me.)


(2) He is young, probably in his early 20s.
a. His attachment to his mother and father indicates that he does not have a wife or children. Older people who have formed their own families do not talk the way he does. The primary affection in his life comes from from his parents, not from a wife or children.

b. Supporting this conclusion are his uninformed observations on food and drink. Filet Mignon and cabernet sauvignon are fine and all, but they are a young person’s idea of sophistication and good taste. The names of the restaurants he throws out are similarly informative, and likely come from watching Western reality TV. Spago. Really?

c. He likes to quote famous authors as a guide to living what he sees as the ideal life. This is also common among young men struggling to define themselves in this world. He’s still looking for his moral compass.


(3) There is no way on God’s green earth he is a trauma surgeon.
a. The nonsense he throws up is just regurgitated stuff from textbooks. I know this. I work with doctors.

b. Why on earth would a real trauma surgeon go on a site for failed lawyers and troll about his models and bottles life?

(4) He has access to some money, as evidenced by a previous business class trip on Emirates. (I think it’s probably his parent’s money.) However, note his need to call it first class. It was not first class, at least from the pictures we were shown. The pictures showed the business class cabin of Emirates.


(5) He has a pathological need to display his status.
This is evidenced by his extensive discussion of possessions, travel accommodations, and women he has “smashed.” I threw out a comment about him being a 20 YO Pakistani man and he took the great time and trouble to take well over a dozen pictures of himself in various locations that he thinks display his high status. Dude, you are pursuing an empty dream. Life isn’t about all that stuff.

Conclusion: He is a young middle-easterner, possibly living in Dubai, living with his parents in some luxury, almost certainly a virgin, desperate to learn and understand Western syntax and language, possibly Takfir. He has probably had a very easy life materially speaking, wanting for nothing. However, he is terribly insulated from the suffering that most people have to go through. All that said, I hope he posts more regularly. His “conquests” are tremendously entertaining.

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severian2 (Dec 11, 2017 - 5:15 pm)

Are you new here?

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moistio2 (Dec 11, 2017 - 5:17 pm)

Haha wow. We found him IRL and this is pretty spot on.

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originallarry (Dec 11, 2017 - 6:22 pm)

barfman up to no good again?

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toooldtocare (Dec 11, 2017 - 6:35 pm)

And I thought he was Harold Robbins back from the dead.

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formermod (Jan 7, 2019 - 4:17 pm)

He's actually 35, 34 at time of posting. He is a neurosurgeon.

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dopesmokeresquire (Dec 11, 2017 - 6:42 pm)

BTD1 is a Dear Friend.

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originallarry (Dec 11, 2017 - 8:03 pm)

Haha. Really? That's hilarious.

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borntodieonce (Dec 11, 2017 - 8:38 pm)

soiled_nappies: "Here are a few observations:

(1) Borntodieonce is not a native English speaker.
a. He uses syntax that is jarring to native English speakers, and does not use typical English words. I have seen heard this before, most often from Middle-Easterners. (I have worked extensively in this part of the world and it all rings a bell for me.)


(2) He is young, probably in his early 20s.
a. His attachment to his mother and father indicates that he does not have a wife or children. Older people who have formed their own families do not talk the way he does. The primary affection in his life comes from from his parents, not from a wife or children.

b. Supporting this conclusion are his uninformed observations on food and drink. Filet Mignon and cabernet sauvignon are fine and all, but they are a young person’s idea of sophistication and good taste. The names of the restaurants he throws out are similarly informative, and likely come from watching Western reality TV. Spago. Really?

c. He likes to quote famous authors as a guide to living what he sees as the ideal life. This is also common among young men struggling to define themselves in this world. He’s still looking for his moral compass.


(3) There is no way on God’s green earth he is a trauma surgeon.
a. The nonsense he throws up is just regurgitated stuff from textbooks. I know this. I work with doctors.

b. Why on earth would a real trauma surgeon go on a site for failed lawyers and troll about his models and bottles life?

(4) He has access to some money, as evidenced by a previous business class trip on Emirates. (I think it’s probably his parent’s money.) However, note his need to call it first class. It was not first class, at least from the pictures we were shown. The pictures showed the business class cabin of Emirates.


(5) He has a pathological need to display his status.
This is evidenced by his extensive discussion of possessions, travel accommodations, and women he has “smashed.” I threw out a comment about him being a 20 YO Pakistani man and he took the great time and trouble to take well over a dozen pictures of himself in various locations that he thinks display his high status. Dude, you are pursuing an empty dream. Life isn’t about all that stuff.

Conclusion: He is a young middle-easterner, possibly living in Dubai, living with his parents in some luxury, almost certainly a virgin, desperate to learn and understand Western syntax and language, possibly Takfir. He has probably had a very easy life materially speaking, wanting for nothing. However, he is terribly insulated from the suffering that most people have to go through. All that said, I hope he posts more regularly. His “conquests” are tremendously entertaining."






























































1.



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bigwags (Dec 11, 2017 - 9:28 pm)

Wew Marfan's



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severian2 (Dec 11, 2017 - 9:34 pm)

Is that a wedding ring?

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bigwags (Dec 11, 2017 - 9:42 pm)

That's batman's wrist

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borntodieonce (Dec 11, 2017 - 8:39 pm)

2. Spago's (the duck is on point).



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borntodieonce (Dec 11, 2017 - 8:40 pm)

dopesmokeresquire: "BTD1 is a Dear Friend."

















3....for DSE...you may have to zoom in to see the note. Hong Kong Penthouse. Ritz Carlton. Proper.



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borntodieonce (Dec 11, 2017 - 8:41 pm)

4....so early in the game.



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borntodieonce (Dec 11, 2017 - 8:42 pm)

If you are ever in Beverly Hills- I highly suggest Spagos.



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borntodieonce (Dec 11, 2017 - 8:47 pm)

views. on views.



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borntodieonce (Dec 11, 2017 - 9:02 pm)

this life is ridiculous.



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vohod (Dec 11, 2017 - 10:28 pm)

./,.,/.,/,.,/



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3lol (Dec 11, 2017 - 10:28 pm)

Post as TCME. TCME is an entertaining dude, this is trash.

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josephine (Dec 11, 2017 - 10:41 pm)

Can you do one for me, btdo? "Step Your Game Up, Josephine" or something like that like with a Bentley in the bg? Thx

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whiteguyinchina (Dec 11, 2017 - 11:15 pm)

hey i may join you in russia depending on city or australia. vladivostockis a go. go ride an ice breaker, check out the taiga and smash some russian speaking asian girls.

oz is a breeze. but why would you want to go there? oz is like a california with an accent.

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borntodieonce (Dec 12, 2017 - 5:09 am)

whiteguyinchina: "hey i may join you in russia depending on city or australia. vladivostockis a go. go ride an ice breaker, check out the taiga and smash some russian speaking asian girls.

oz is a breeze. but why would you want to go there? oz is like a california with an accent."
























Good morning man. I hope you are doing well. Fair points regarding Australia..."like California with an accent." I think Russia would be interesting. Have you arrived at a decision regarding continuing to work abroad, vis-a-vis moving back state side and working? What are your goals for 2018?

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whiteguyinchina (Dec 12, 2017 - 11:09 pm)

i think australia has nice nature. but i found it quite similar to west coast cities. lots of places to choose from, some weird town in russia seems like an interesting place to me. you still havent explored asia from what you poasted. lots of spots besides HK.

i am in between decisions right now. lots of opportunity in asia, but its so cut throat. people in the US couldnt even imagine. in US, slower life and less growth. but life is so much better.

frankly.my goal for 2018 is to find a way to never work again. my dream is to be like a poster called employmentlawyer, who makes a living writing smut for amazon kindle. shes my hero. i prob would write smut but some sci fi detective international espionage true crime fiction. just a dream.for now. i am resesrching the ins and outs for.now. and employmentlawyer, if u r reading this, i can be your assistant. gratis.

how about you? what are your goals? i have a buddy from high school who is also a surgeon but recently divorced. he has beeb traveling to random places the past year, grieving you could say. flying to random countries. seeing the sights, and having women trying to bed him. i met him in beijing this year, we had to.fight the women off. most were prostitutes but still.

well i am almost in shanghai. get a free meal and stretch my legs.

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borntodieonce (Dec 12, 2017 - 5:12 am)

josephine: "Can you do one for me, btdo? "Step Your Game Up, Josephine" or something like that like with a Bentley in the bg? Thx"

















Good morning. I read your post.

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gazoo (Dec 12, 2017 - 6:19 am)

Bravo!



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midlaw (Dec 13, 2017 - 4:13 am)

Fun poast. Seems inconsistent with clique theory as a loser can’t win.

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borntodieonce (Dec 13, 2017 - 6:41 am)

whiteguyinchina: “i think australia has nice nature. but i found it quite similar to west coast cities. lots of places to choose from, some weird town in russia seems like an interesting place to me. you still havent explored asia from what you poasted. lots of spots besides HK.

i am in between decisions right now. lots of opportunity in asia, but its so cut throat. people in the US couldnt even imagine. in US, slower life and less growth. but life is so much better.

frankly.my goal for 2018 is to find a way to never work again. my dream is to be like a poster called employmentlawyer, who makes a living writing smut for amazon kindle. shes my hero. i prob would write smut but some sci fi detective international espionage true crime fiction. just a dream.for now. i am resesrching the ins and outs for.now. and employmentlawyer, if u r reading this, i can be your assistant. gratis.

how about you? what are your goals? i have a buddy from high school who is also a surgeon but recently divorced. he has beeb traveling to random places the past year, grieving you could say. flying to random countries. seeing the sights, and having women trying to bed him. i met him in beijing this year, we had to.fight the women off. most were prostitutes but still.

well i am almost in shanghai. get a free meal and stretch my legs.”























Good morning. Yes, I will pass on Australia for now. I will likely do Russia. You are correct, there is a lot more of Asia for me to explore. That being said, most places in Asia likely don’t compare to Hong Kong. Recently, my parents where in Tokyo, and they said it is whatever. They were not impressed. My father loves Guangzhou though. In terms of picking a weird town in Russia, I don’t have limitless time, wherein each excursion has to be fulfilling. Consequently, I tend to travel to big cities that will afford me some level of stimulation and sense of exploration. Newness.

Life in the United States is “slower”- if you are not in the big leagues. If you are in the game proper, life in the United States is fast. Interesting goal, regarding never working again. That will get boring. Additionally, writing sci fi whatever seems boring too.

Interesting, regarding your friend that is recently divorced. I don’t understand the concept of marriage in 2017. Did he initiate the divorce? Or did she?

My goal for 2018, is to spend as much time with my father as possible. My parents are heading out of the country this Friday, and they won’t return until mid January. So, I won’t see them for a cool minute. I don’t have the time to meet them overseas for Christmas, so I'll likely just fly to Toronto, and relax for a few days. Get some work done at a Starbucks. If it is snowing hard next week, I may just stay put. Or maybe New York.

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whiteguyinchina (Dec 13, 2017 - 11:58 am)

singapore is nice. ever been? big cities all look the same to me. franchises and people doing the same sh+t. i was in melblurne amd had half a day off, and chose to sleep instead of seeing the sights. i just didnt care to see another statue or harbor. i regretted it like 20%, but the other 80% didnt care.

ha. my buddy finished his residency and then his wife started saying she wanted to move closer to her family, which had worse work for him. he must have sensed something, because he got into her email one time and found she had been having an affair. three kids, and he had just bought her a condo and car to keep her happy. it was terrible.

marriage is important. arent your parents married? maybe you dont see the point yet, but give it time. chasing pu??y gets old. its all just pu??y. half of humanity has one. there are other depths to life.

i would like to, most of all, never be an employee again. therein lies the appeal of writing. you are in the control. mainly though, i am so phenomenally burned out from working here that the thought of living in a suburb in cleveland sounds nice. the stress of living and working in china is one most western people cannot handle. its hard to explain. maybe i just need some real time off. which is impossible. i.just keep getting busier.

yet there is a part of china which i love. so much optimism. everyone is a self made entrepreneur. you can really kill it here. a company owner i know made 15-20 million USD this month. this month! net profit in his pocket. there are like 3-4 business ideas j have that i just need to grab. everyone here is just trying to make more money. seems like america cares more about who said what or who groped who then with getting ahead. i diunno. i guess i am undecided. there are other factors which worry me. you cannot deny the decline of the american empire, can you?

just had guangdong food then got drunk w the biggest latex supplier to china. it was awesome. one of my favorite cuisines in china. you should also consider kunming. never.been, but heard its.beautiful.

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borntodieonce (Dec 13, 2017 - 6:43 am)

midlaw: "Fun poast. Seems inconsistent with clique theory as a loser can’t win."














lol. Good morning.

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wearyattorney (Dec 13, 2017 - 12:45 pm)

Life doesn’t work out for most, but when anyone watches Braveheart, no one says “wow, I want to be Robert the Bruce.” Everyone wants to be William Wallace...

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borntodieonce (Dec 13, 2017 - 1:05 pm)

whiteguyinchina: “singapore is nice. ever been? big cities all look the same to me. franchises and people doing the same sh+t. i was in melblurne amd had half a day off, and chose to sleep instead of seeing the sights. i just didnt care to see another statue or harbor. i regretted it like 20%, but the other 80% didnt care.

ha. my buddy finished his residency and then his wife started saying she wanted to move closer to her family, which had worse work for him. he must have sensed something, because he got into her email one time and found she had been having an affair. three kids, and he had just bought her a condo and car to keep her happy. it was terrible.

marriage is important. arent your parents married? maybe you dont see the point yet, but give it time. chasing pu??y gets old. its all just pu??y. half of humanity has one. there are other depths to life.

i would like to, most of all, never be an employee again. therein lies the appeal of writing. you are in the control. mainly though, i am so phenomenally burned out from working here that the thought of living in a suburb in cleveland sounds nice. the stress of living and working in china is one most western people cannot handle. its hard to explain. maybe i just need some real time off. which is impossible. i.just keep getting busier.

yet there is a part of china which i love. so much optimism. everyone is a self made entrepreneur. you can really kill it here. a company owner i know made 15-20 million USD this month. this month! net profit in his pocket. there are like 3-4 business ideas j have that i just need to grab. everyone here is just trying to make more money. seems like america cares more about who said what or who groped who then with getting ahead. i diunno. i guess i am undecided. there are other factors which worry me. you cannot deny the decline of the american empire, can you?

just had guangdong food then got drunk w the biggest latex supplier to china. it was awesome. one of my favorite cuisines in china. you should also consider kunming. never.been, but heard its.beautiful.”





















I have never been to Singapore.


Wow…that sucks regarding your friend. My mentor has a saying that he took from boxing- “protect yourself at all times.” My mentor also has another saying…”borntodieonce…you are ahead on points.”

Yes, my parents are married. They are an amazing couple. My mother is a boss. My father is a boss. My mother would go to war for my father and I. She is down to fight in all instances. Her business acumen is lethal. She makes it look effortless- and still is home cooking meals. She rocks $50,000 purses for sh*ts and giggles- albeit she goes to the local Asian or Indian market- and will haggle prices, if and when necessary. The other day- my mother made me my favorite soup, froze it- and had my father next day mail it to me. My mother is simultaneously a lion, and a dove. It is a privilege to be their son. I don’t think they make women like my mother anymore. If they do, there are very few. The foundation is different. So in that regard, I don’t see the purpose of marriage in 2017. In current times, marriage is an insurance policy for women. It is not about love. My mother married by father when she was 18. Different world. My father was in his 30s.

I don’t chase pus*y. Pus*y comes to me. In truth, I derive more pleasure from being in the operating room- than pus*y. And most days, I turn down pus*y to sleep. Sleep is godly.

Interesting, regarding how big cities all look the same to you. There is a level of homogenization amongst big cities. However, I think it is important not to lose that zest for being in a new place. Which city do you like more- San Francisco or New York?

The American Empire is not in decline. If people on the sidelines, want to focus on sexual assault and groping- so be it. Money is still being made by the players on the court. By and large, Americans have a preoccupation with non-sense. That notwithstanding, it does not change the fact that America is the mecca. Those who seek distractions, will be distracted.


Yes, being an employee- is a dead-end.



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borntodieonce (Dec 13, 2017 - 1:05 pm)

Gotta love these parents.



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borntodieonce (Dec 13, 2017 - 1:06 pm)

my most precious thing in life.



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omahafabio (Dec 13, 2017 - 1:16 pm)

"borntodieonce (Dec 13, 2017 - 1:06 pm)

my most precious thing in life.



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Wjw. What about your daughter?

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borntodieonce (Dec 13, 2017 - 1:22 pm)

omahafabio

"borntodieonce

my most precious thing in life.



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Wjw. What about your daughter?"
























Good afternoon. My parents are my most precious thing in life. Without family, one has nothing. Most people will only come to realize this- when they are facing cancer, or some other life altering event. Everything else is just noise.

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whiteguyinchina (Dec 13, 2017 - 8:30 pm)

always felt more home in the west. tho the people in both places suffer from a group psychosis that is different in each place. but in SF they seem happier. maybe different drugs.

small quirky towns still retain some originality. i feel big cities emulate big cities and franchises other franchises. so yes, you have the tokyo coffee chain, but they still sell hazelnut lattes like starbucks. there is so little craftsmanship or artistry anymore in anything. a 100 years ago each village had their own special products.

what do you like about NY?

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gazoo (Dec 14, 2017 - 4:08 am)

whiteguyinchina (Dec 13, 2017 )

"i am so phenomenally burned out from working here that the thought of living in a suburb in cleveland sounds nice."


Do you enjoy shoveling snow?

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whiteguyinchina (Dec 14, 2017 - 7:08 am)

at this point, mowing a lawn with one of those rideable units and a cold root beer by my side sounds a ok.

shovel snow? yea why not.

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borntodieonce (Dec 14, 2017 - 7:56 pm)

whiteguyinchina: "always felt more home in the west. tho the people in both places suffer from a group psychosis that is different in each place. but in SF they seem happier. maybe different drugs.

small quirky towns still retain some originality. i feel big cities emulate big cities and franchises other franchises. so yes, you have the tokyo coffee chain, but they still sell hazelnut lattes like starbucks. there is so little craftsmanship or artistry anymore in anything. a 100 years ago each village had their own special products.

what do you like about NY?"

























Good evening. What do I like about New York? I am not going to answer that question. Its not a bad question. However, somethings in life don't need explanation, insofar as the explanation will never convey the totality of the conviction or feelings.

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Good evening.

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